Jag har fullt upp med att färdigställa min bok så jag passar på att låta Susanne Jeffers inspirera er lite igen med några tänkvärda rader när det gäller relationer... jag tror nog att hon tycker det är okey... och jag tycker detta var mycket fint....
A Higher Love is about deep appreciation.
One of the most precious gifts we can give to our mate is to let them have the experience of "making it" with us. One way to do this is, instead of complaining, to open our eyes to the gifts our mate is constantly giving us in one form or another. And if we are truly conscious, we will notice that the gifts are many. We then need to constantly acknowledge his/her gifts...
You are contributing so much to my life.
You are a beautiful person.
I learn from you.
I feel supported by you.
I feel blessed by the way you love me.
I love you.
Thank you...thank you...thank you.
We say these things,
not only in private, but in the presence of other people. Nothing will make our mate (or anyone else) feel more special than our validating them in the presence of other people. As we express our appreciation to our mate, we embrace the abundance in our relationship instead of feeling any sense of lack. In that way, we are enriched...and so is our mate.
Inspiration and appreciation:
two of the many important ingredients for a Higher Love. And today is a good day to start "stirring the pot" and focusing on moving ourselves up into the arena of a Higher Love...an aware love...an adult love...one that allows us to feel good about ourselves and the ones we love. Trust me...it doesn't get any better than that... Susan Jeffers